There is a divine energy coming into the planet right now to help us release that which no longer serves us so that we can expand our consciousness and be able to accommodate a higher, more powerful vibration. This requires two things from us: letting go of the old and setting intentions for the new. For instance, if you set your intention to have more love, abundance, clarity of purpose or security, you can help create this by clearing out negative emotions or beliefs, and by ending toxic or draining relationships and/or situations.
You may be holding things internally or externally that keep you from moving forward into your truth. For instance, we often hold on to emotions such as blame, anger, resentment or bitterness in our minds, as well as our bodies. Or we may hold destructive beliefs like "I'm too fat for anybody to really want me." Beliefs such as these trigger a stress response in our bodies that cause all sorts of health problems. In other words, our tissues and cells retain a physical memory of our past experiences, making our body like a coded map. When such emotions or beliefs get stuck in our body, our energy is not able to flow properly. This is called a block. When we don't attend to these blocks, they eventually show up as symptoms.
Sometimes we need to let go of external things such as relationships that we've outgrown or that are destructive. Please know that letting go of a relationship does not have to come from a place of anger or hate. It can come from a place of love, caring, acceptance and respect. You can't control how the other person will react, but you can choose how you want to be inside and how to behave. Staying in a relationship that is holding you back puts up a block to growth for both people. You can stay in the relationship and live with anger, blame and resentment, find acceptance and stay, or move on. Sometimes this involves loving someone enough to let him or her go. If you do the right thing, whatever that is, everything will balance itself out in the long run.
If you are in a toxic or dysfunctional relationship, you may not always be able to end a relationship in a way that seems loving at first. You may need to practice tough love. In this case, you need to focus on your needs, draw strong, clear boundaries with that person, and learn how to stand in your power. You may need to cut that person completely out of your life. As you work through this and are able to let that person go, then hopefully you can hold a place of love for him or her and yourself so that you can both grow and move on. Remember—you can't control how the other person responds. If you continue to put your energy into a toxic or dysfunctional relationship, you are wasting your own energy. You have to let that person go and find his or her own way. You've got to take care of yourself. Sometimes people with toxic or dependent personalities have to hit bottom before they can find their way. If you hold that person up, he or she will come to think of this as normal and will never grow in this area.
